As women, we’ve watched the definition of masculinity shift into something increasingly muddled and uncertain. In this new era of confusion, the term heterofatalism has emerged—describing the disillusionment and exhaustion many women feel in heterosexual relationships. There is a deep craving for connection, for a partnership where a man not only sees his partner but actively fights for her—heart, soul, and spirit.

This piece is a rebellion against what too often feels like the emotional status quo. My hero stands in stark contrast to the detached or absent partner. He is fully present—passionate, protective, and deeply committed. He cradles his partner close, not because she needs rescuing, but because he chooses to show up, fiercely and lovingly.

Too many women today are cast in the role of caretaker—of emotional laborer—for their partners. It's a job many never asked for.

The Firefighter, 2025

Glass Mosaic

36 x 37 in.

$10,500